What Her Interior Can Say About Her Character

How to know the character of a girl? You learn many things through communication, but non-verbal details are also very informative. If you are dating a girl and you want to know girl’s character, take a closer look at her dwelling. The environment we live in can tell much about our habits, character, and tastes.

1. Too many locksIf you come to your girlfriend’s place, pay attention to the locks on her doors. There are two locks in the entrance door; there is a lock in each door between the rooms. She even has a locking box for her laptop! This is indicative of the emotional shock she has experienced and some problems with trust she has now. It’s unlikely your relationship will be easy and comfortable.
2. MirrorsYou can use the mirrors in her house not only to check out your hair but also to understand what kind of person she is. How to know a girl's character? You should pay attention to what is reflected in the mirror. If her mirror is placed so that it reflects the free space, it means she is a positive and vigorous person. However, if the mirror reflects the clutter, it’s a bad sign: the girl is insecure and she can’t deal with it, she even aggravates the problem by “multiplying” negativity in her house.
3. Empty glassesIf you see an empty wine glass on the table, it shouldn’t repel you. According to a recent study, those women who drink one or two glasses of wine a day are more uninhibited, more satisfied with their sexual life, get aroused faster and have orgasms more often. So, an empty glass shouldn’t alert you. But you should get suspicious if you see many cans of cheap alcoholic drinks.
4. Stacks of old thingsIf her dwelling resembles the archives of a historical museum, it’s not a good sign. According to psychologists, women who keep old things, books, newspapers don’t throw them not because they are lazy. On a deeper level, it means they can’t let their past go. And their past interferes in their present. This is another way how to know a girl's character.
5. Plain wallsThere are no pictures or family photos on the walls in her house? It may mean that she doesn’t attach great importance to family ties, friendship, and relations with loved ones. Specialists in non-verbal communication say that it’s very bad if there aren’t any pictures or calendars in the room. Even primitive people decorated their cave walls with drawings.
6. PillowsAnother way how to know the character of a girl is to look at her beds: if there are pyramids of pillows and layers of blankets, don’t count on spontaneous intimacy. Too many pillows represent the suppressed disgust at sex – they create a barrier between you and the bed surface.
7. Open doors and windowsPeople who like to keep their doors and windows open are more open personalities themselves. If you come to her place and see that all curtains are drawn and doors are closed, it means that she wants to hide from all and avoid changes. This is not the right girl for a relationship. Run away from her.
8. TrophiesSome people like to display their minor and major achievements, gifts, old letters. Now, replace “some people” with “neurotics” and you’ll understand why you should stay away from these girls. According to psychologists, this inclination is the attempt to cheer oneself up – the habit of insecure and anxious people.
9. Plenty of shoesIf you notice myriads of pairs of shoes in her house that lie chaotically on the floor, you’d better run away. When a capricious, superficial woman with steep demands is in a bad mood, she goes and buys a pair of new shoes or a new bag. In fact, her problem lies much deeper – a low self-esteem and mood swings that need to be dealt with. Or she just works for a fashion magazine in a fashion department.