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Kimanzi Constable and his wife in Positano
My wife and I sold all our material possessions and are now traveling full time.Courtesy of Kimanzi Constable
  • I want to be close to my children and grandchild as a father.

  • We sold everything to travel full time in our empty nest years last year.

  • It is like traveling full time while struggling with the feeling that I am abandoning my kids.

We are full-time travelers. We sold all of our possessions to live in a location. We decided to travel the world and have unique experiences.

Being so far away from my children sometimes feels like I am abandoning them.

I am thankful that I get to travel to exciting countries, sad that my children are not with me, and amazed by new experiences every day. I often feel like I am doing something wrong by not being available for my children.

I felt shame and compared myself to other parents who decided to stay close to their children.

I want to live a life outside of being a parent, so I will continue to travel and embrace the kind of life I want to live. I have learned that I can be a great parent while not being physically close to my children.

I had to give myself permission to live my best life as a parent

I started going to therapy a few years ago and one of the things we worked on was the feeling of obligation as a parent. I felt like I could only make limited changes because I was responsible for putting their needs first.

Through long-held parenting beliefs, I was able to explore what feels good and how I want to spend my golden years. Travel is important for my soul and happiness.

There is no law that says I have to be close to my children to be a good parent. I want to be a good father while also living a happy life.

I use technology to stay in touch and communicate frequently

We offer advice, plan anything relevant to our family, and catch up on calls every fortnight.

The ability to be connected has relieved a lot of stress, but these frequent check-ins are not as good as hugging our kids. We are in the loop for our kids in a different way.

Technology has helped take the edge off of those feelings of abandonment.

I want my children to see that it's essential to live and not just exist

Lead by example is one of the best things I can do for my children. I hope they take to heart the example of selling everything to travel full time and living a life free of consumerism.

My children don't want to travel the way we do, but I want them to question what makes them feel good. I want them to know that life is meant to be lived and that they don't have to follow a path that feels like they are stuck.

Modeling a well-lived life has helped me get over the feeling that I am abandoning my children, because I am showing them they don't have to follow societal standards in their lives.

I don't know if we will travel for the rest of our lives, but I have come to understand that not being close to my children is ok. It is possible to be a good parent and live your best life.

My children have plans to join us in various countries, and having a life of their own means we can surprise them whenever we want.

The original article can be found on Insider.

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