I Got Ben Wrapped Around My Little Finger ...Jennifer Lopez loves Ben Affleck and is often in his presence, even though he's physically absent. He always hangs around her neck!J Lo continues her birthday vacation in Portofino (Italy) without Ben. She walked through the city on Saturday wearing a necklace that featured Ben's name prominently.According to Ben, he is actually returning to the U.S. so J Lo is cruising by on the yacht sans him.J Lo has been texting and FaceTiming non-stop since Ben is gone.The bling is a custom Foundrae necklace Jen was given by Ben for her 52nd Birthday.It seems a shame that J Lo is now alone on the yacht, which costs $1.1 million per week and comes with all kinds of toys and amenities. It's amazing!Before heading to the U.S., Ben met Jen at a restaurant. However, food was secondary because they were constantly chatting with each other while diners watched.