13. "I moved to a different city to study, and I didn't know anyone. My ex was found and we were together for almost a year. I spent most of my time with him, which did not allow me to make new friends. "I didn't place school first at the time.""I found a passion for a subject and gave my all to it. I also made great friends during that time. He seemed annoyed by this. He lost it when I refused to meet him for a drink one day because I had already made plans with a friend. He said that that was what he liked most about me, that I was always available. This comment was like a punch in the stomach. That comment made me realize that I had no other life than him. I was instantly smitten by that comment. He was a jerk."