bartender mixing a pink drink in a highball glass at a bar
I've worked as a bartender for over a decade.David Fuentes Prieto/Getty Images
  • I've been a bartender for over a decade and still get frustrated by certain customer behaviors.

  • It's not going to get my attention if I yell my name and wave money in my face.

  • You shouldn't assume a bartender is gay, and specialty drinks shouldn't be changed.

I have been working as a bartender for over 10 years. We have to be pretty charming while doing it because we are hard at work.

Don't get67531s when you're out having a drink with your friends.

Be obnoxious while trying to get a bartender's attention

waving cash at the bartender, yelling their name, or trying to get their attention while doing something else are the most common offenses.

It's usually enough to let the bartender know you want one if you're at the bar without a drink.

Eye contact and a nod will suffice if you think the bartender doesn't know you're waiting.

Step up to the bar when you don't know what you want

If the bar is busy and you have to wait to order your drink, it's a good idea to figure out what you're going to order.

If you turn around and ask your friends what they want, you'll lose your spot in line. They do not have time for that.

Assume a bartender's gender or sexuality

a bartender pouring a drink on tap at a bar for a smiling customer
You don't have to flirt to get a drink at a bar.Monkey Business Images/Shutterstock

It's a good way to get ignored for the rest of the night.

You will be aware if they want to flirt with you. Let's make it professional.

Order a drink without an ID

You don't have your ID because of a story.

A bartender doesn't want to risk their job or face legal trouble just to help you.

Ask the bartender to play your music

The bar doesn't want to hear your music if there isn't a karaoke machine.

Don't ask the bartender to change anything. They are not DJs.

Alter special cocktails on the menu

The bartender usually knows best when it comes to mixed drinks.Maksym Fesenko/Shutterstock

Do it at home if you want to make your own cocktails.

The cocktail is sent back nine times out of 10. You can just order a drink and it will sound good to you.

Tell the bartender your first name for your tab

Give the bartender your last name when you're asked what the name on your tab is.

You think you're the only one in this place.

Rely on the bartender to remember your drink order

You may be getting them confused with the other bartender.

It is better if you know your own order.

Waste time by asking 'What do you have?'

Do you want me to list everything we have? There is a bar.

Asking what pilsners and gins you have is fine. If we have to help you figure out what you like to drink, that helps us narrow it down a bit.

Take up more space than you need

Being rowdy and taking up a lot of space in a bar can be rude.Nomad_Soul/Shutterstock

People are at the bar.

Don't lean over or leave your trash on the patio. Don't leave a trail of dirty glasses behind you, just bring your empty glass with you when you come up for your next drink.

The bartender can spend more time making drinks if they don't have to clean up after you.

Leave only a verbal tip

They don't pay the bills because they like to be praised.

We work for money. Show them a big tip if you think they're the best in town.

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