Sex is one of life's greatest pleasures and yet, according to a survey, sexual Frequency was in Decline in 2019. There are more complicated answers to why we aren't having as much sex. Maybe a new question is needed. Is this trend a public health issue? What would we learn about our health if we did that?
It would be forgiven for you to think that the world of late is similar to Margaret Atwood. We have given out many once-in-a-lifetime events across the globe. There's an ongoing climate crisis making predictions of certain doom a hot, sticky reality; the ever-present COVID-19 pandemic, on top of 14 years of austerity measures, and stories of violence against women and people of marginalized genders.
It is easy to see why people are not interested in sex. You are in good company if you feel less frisky than usual. According to the International Journal of Sexual Health, a lack of interest in sex is one of the most common sexual problems faced by women. Since 2008, our urge to jump under covers has plummeted.
We have had it difficult. It is easy to see how these macro events are impacting us personally with a constant stream of new-normals and rising rates of depression and anxiety. For all of us, it has been very hard. Most of the time, cough cough party gate.
What can we learn from these reports? The decline in sexual frequencies points to a troubling trend in public health.
Reports of disease, injury, mental health, and healthcare resources are some of the markers that make up public health. The greying of the population, rising birth rates, and the state of mental health are some of the changes that can be determined by these. Where does sexual Frequency fit into this?
Dr. Olwen Williams is a consultant in sexual health and HIV medicine. Williams suggests that sexual health and quality of sex should be included in a complete health picture.
"For a complete health picture, we need to include sexual health and quality of sex to understand public health better."
Sex is one of the most pleasurable activities a person can engage in. It is how we express ourselves. Sex with our partners and ourselves is how we communicate. It affects our self-esteem and self- image, both positive and negative.
There are many different types of sex, from touching and threesomes to masturbation and anal sex. Quality sex doesn't always need to include climax. There is no doubt that orgasms are amazing, but they are not the end of sex. Sex can involve sex toys and filthy language. All of this really great stuff is included when researchers say fewer people are having sex. That's important.
According to Williams, the relationship between sexual frequencies and public health is symbiotic. It points to a society that has good standards of care, stable living standards, and a general sense of feeling safe if reports ofholistic sexual Frequency are high. If people aren't having as much sex, it could mean they're under a lot of stress. It's possible to predict more than just how people feel when we focus on when people are having sex. Two of the largest contributors to presenteeism and absenteeism in the UK are depression and anxiety, and data can be used to improve care. If the quality of our sex lives have the potential to aid in better understanding our full health profile, why should it be ignored?
Shame and judgement need to be changed in order to change our social discourse. Education and campaigning for more authentic education surrounding sexual encounters has proven to dismantle shame, judgement and more serious matters, such as assaults, which disproportionately affect black and brown women from low-income households. Despite the benefits, and despite reports by the Sex Education Forum that young people have shocking gaps in their knowledge when it comes to sex and relationship education, initiatives that offer more transparent education around sex have been met with pearl-clutching protest.
Williams believes that most people are British and don't talk about their sexual desires and needs as they get older. She says that this can cause distress.
She's right. Half of the people surveyed wouldn't dream of telling their partner about masturbation needs, while 63 percent said self love and sex toys are taboo. Almost half the people wished they had more confidence to achieve what they wanted. There is a lack of understanding between what we want and what we admit to wanting.
"In all areas where people might visit with psychological or physical problems that are related to a person's sexuality and their psychological wellbeing."
How can we improve it? All health practitioners need to be comfortable talking about patients' sexualities, according to Williams. In her field she works in sexual health.
Williams says that people might visit with psychological or physical problems that are related to a person's sexuality and their psychological wellbeing.
The key to this understanding, according to Williams, is more data that is representative of desire and libido, as well as actual sexual activity that is inclusive of the good, the bad, and the ugly.
She wants us to understand what sexual activity looks like. People don't realize that we're inherently sexual beings. We would get a better idea of what people are up to by doing extensive surveys of the general population. As humans, how we express our sexuality is very important. We need to know if the woman is still using her sex toy. She might be having a whale of a time, even though we think she's inactive.
When it comes to figuring out how to be a healthier, happier society, we don't know how to understand a full health picture that includes sexual Frequency, Insturment and Pleasure.
Without dismantling the structures that prevent a renaissance-like reexamination of public health, sexual Frequency will remain a footnote.