Dana thought she could help care for her parents, whose health had begun to decline, and still hold onto her job administering a busy dental practice.

She didn't want to lose her job and it was a great paying one. She tried shifting to a four-day schedule, working evenings to keep up with the office demands, and she began spending a few nights a week at her parents' home.

Her parents were both diagnosed with dementia. The family found out that the cost of hiring home aides for two elderly people was more than they could afford. She said that they needed her. She moved in full time after leaving her job.

An estimated 22 to 26 million American adults provide care for family members or friends, most of them older people who need help with daily activities, and more than half of those caregivers have jobs. Douglas Wolf is a demographer and gerontologist at Syracuse University.

Research shows that caregivers who are employed reduce their work hours. A number of recent studies show the impact of these decisions on the economy.

Yulya Truskinovsky, an economist at Wayne State University, and her co-authors combined data from a Census Bureau survey with Social Security records to follow an unusual employment trajectory for over 12,000 people.

Employment dropped almost 8 percent among caregivers compared to demographically similar non- caregivers. In the first year, it occurs. We don't see any evidence that they switch to self-employment. They leave the labor force and stay out of it for a while.

Older caregivers are more likely to leave the labor force than younger caregivers. The caregivers didn't return to the level of labor participation of demographically matched non- caregivers seven years later.

There were differences between men and women exiting the work force.

When men become caregivers, they leave the labor force and don't come back. The study couldn't provide an explanation as to why men take on care of their families.

Women caregivers leave the work force more abruptly and are more likely to come back after just two years.

The conflict between employment and caring was made worse by the Pandemic. She said that caregiving arrangements are very fragile. If one thing goes wrong, your whole arrangement falls apart.

In a national sample of adults over 55, half the family caregivers reported that Covid-19 had disrupted their care schedules, forcing them to provide more care because paid help became unavailable or because they were afraid of transmission. More than a third of them had been employed.

The rates of depression, anxiety and loneliness for caregivers who faced disrupted arrangements were much higher than for non- caregivers.

ImageAfter Ms. Guthrie’s parents died, she relocated to Radcliff, Ky., where her sister lives. She is currently unemployed, and though she has been interviewing for jobs, she wonders whether she will ever be able to retire.
After Ms. Guthrie’s parents died, she relocated to Radcliff, Ky., where her sister lives. She is currently unemployed, and though she has been interviewing for jobs, she wonders whether she will ever be able to retire.Credit...Natosha Via for The New York Times
After Ms. Guthrie’s parents died, she relocated to Radcliff, Ky., where her sister lives. She is currently unemployed, and though she has been interviewing for jobs, she wonders whether she will ever be able to retire.

Many forms of the toll on caregivers are taken. Even though her superiors urged her to apply for promotions, Susan didn't. She said she was not mobile.

She can't leave her home in St. Paul, Minn., because she built a handicapped accessible addition for her mother. The Army has been supportive of the situation. She estimated that her salary would go up 25 percent if she had accepted promotions.

Three years ago, Shawn French and his wife welcomed a widower into their home. Mr. French is able to help his father-in-law with meals, medication, and mobility because he works from home.

Mr. French wouldn't have it any other way. The stress caused him to give up weekend work that had earned him hundreds of dollars a week. He said that they depended on it whenever things were tight. He was dropped from his health plan and became uninsured as a result of his wife changing her work arrangement.

A recent study shows that almost one-quarter of caregivers miss work when they stay at their jobs.

The most productivity loss is attributed to presenteeism, according to a senior author. She said absenteeism is more visible than presenteeism. You show up, but you're not doing anything.

Work productivity went down by one-third among affected employees. The most recent data available on adults 65 and older shows a loss of $48 billion a year.

Workers providing care for the elderly may be helped by paid family leave, which is better configured for the needs of new parents. Residency rates at nursing homes declined when California adopted paid leave in 2004.

According to Dr. Wolf, the change in the law may have caused people to stay on the job but take enough time off to keep their parents out of a nursing home. The authors show that paid sick leave increases family care.

The Biden plan would have provided 12 weeks of paid family leave each year, along with tax credits to offset the costs of caring for a family member, and Social Security credits for time family caregivers spend out of the labor force. The Senate has been unable to pass the bill.

There is no debate about the need for family caregivers to be supported. Many workers can handle the more predictable needs of aging parents and spouses, but some face intense pressures incompatible with today's workplace

She relocated to Kentucky to be near her sister. She left her job in Florida to find a position at dental practices there, but she has never been paid the same amount as she was in Florida.

She doesn't regret the sacrifice she made to care for her parents, but she is currently unemployed and wondering if she will ever be able to retire.

She said that she would do it again. I haven't been able to recover from the beating I took.