You might think the person in your life is a bad person. What is that thing that means?

The term 'narcissism' is often used to describe people who are self absorbed, entitled and manipulative.

An estimated 1% of the population is affected by a condition called a pathological narcissist. It is possible for a person to be controlling and tolerant while not acknowledging wrongdoing. They will use tricks to escape blame.

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Craig Malkin, a lecturer at Harvard Medical School and author of "Rethinking Narcissism: The Secret to recognizing and dealing with Narcissists", says that we all go through periods where we might be temporarily self-occupied.

If someone is so driven to be special that they lose sight of other people's needs and feelings, it's different. It wreaks havoc on their career or their relationships when they become out of touch.

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Some people with personality quirks can still be compassionate, even if they are self-centered.

The author of "Should I Stay or Should I Go" is a psychologist. A personality style characterized by arrogance and entitlement is called a "narcissistic" style. She says it is stable and consistent.

A medical diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder requires a psychological evaluation to determine if the behavior is pervasive, but also causes subjective distress, meaning a person is uncomfortable with it or it causes some social impairment.

Kim Sage, a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in narcissism and trauma, says that it becomes a problem when you have an inner world that is not sympathetic. They will often struggle in their relationships as a result of that.

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What are the common traits of a narcissist?

A trait of narcissism is that it goes beyond self-obsession. There are a lot of common signs.

  • There is a lack of compassion.

  • It's entitlement.

  • A sense of superiority.

  • There are fantasies of power, beauty, and love.

  • It's excessive for validation.

  • Enthusiasm.

  • It ispersonally exploitative behavior.

  • Manpulative.

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What 'causes' narcissism?

Is the person a born or made person? Both biological and sociological factors can affect the outcome.

Grandiosity and entitlement are heritable, according to numerous studies. A landmark study conducted over the course of 20 years found that secure, authoritative parenting played a pivotal role in preventing the development of maladaptive narcissism in children with borderline personality disorders.

Most childhood trauma victims don't become neurotic. It's a combination of the risks that lead to variation in the path of self-esteem.

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Who are the different types of narcissists?

On one side, it can be caused by ignorant people, and on the other side, it can be caused by people with too much knowledge. It can become a pathological inclination to hurt someone.

It's important not to say thatnarcissists are cruel. She says that narcissism can often be caused by an inability to process feelings of guilt, shame or inscrutableness.

It is very complex and can be intentional. It's a combination of a lack of empathy and their need for entitlement that ends up hurting people with these disorders.

There are three different types of people.

  • "You know, loud, chest thumping braggarts who enjoy looking at themselves in the mirror and they are often referred to as overt narcissists."

  • Unlike overt narcissists, covert or introverted narcissists are not interested in looks, fame or money, they are interested in how they look.

  • People who think they are exceptional because they are more altruistic than others are called communal narcissism. It's an effort to get validation.

Can narcissism be treated?

There is no cure for a person with a personality disorder.

  • Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, also known as EMDR, is a trauma-informed therapy.

  • According to Durvasula, a skills-based program can teach narcissists healthier ways to manage and express their emotions.

  • The approach combines elements of cognitive behavioral therapy and psychoanalysis to uncover and understand early maladaptive patterns. It can be helpful for people who didn't meet their emotional needs as a child.

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Treatment for extreme narcissism helps people learn to not deny feelings of sadness, fear or even healthy anger. We need to be able to express our emotions and still care about the other person in a healthy relationship.

Success in treatment and change requires a willingness to play the long game.

Narcissism is a way of thinking. It's not easy to change a whole personality. Longer-term therapy with a professional who understands it is what you'll need. This personality style is only one part of the battle.

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The original article was on USA TODAY. There is a personality disorder called neurotic personality disorder.