Side-by-side photos show the expectation and reality of going on a cruise
Cruising is a popular vacation that Insider's reporter found to be less glamorous than it appears on social media and in promotional ads.Joey Hadden/Insider
  • My first cruise was on the largest cruise ship in the world.

  • The reality of cruising was not in line with my expectations.

  • I battled crowds, waited in lines, and sat in tour buses.

When I booked my first cruise on Royal Caribbean's Wonder of the Seas, I was expecting to see a lot of the world.

A woman in a sunhat aboard a ship looks at a distant island. A man and a woman enjoy pooltime onboard a ship.
From images of cruising I've seen in the past, I expected to be able to relax and enjoy some pool time.Buena Vista Images/Barry Winiker/Getty Images

The experience of cruising for the first time was not what I was expecting.

The author on the largest cruise ship in the world
The author on the top deck of Wonder of the Seas.Joey Hadden/Insider

I was fortunate to find a chair in the crowded pool area. I waited longer than I anticipated. I could see a lot of the world from other people's heads.

People look at a cruise ship from the window of a ferry
Wonder of the Seas from the window of a ferry.Joey Hadden/Insider

The disappointment began before I left. My trip began with a flight and a budget hotel room near my port in Fort Lauderdale since I don't live nearby.

The author in a budget hotel room
The author in a hotel near the port.Joey Hadden/Insider

I had to wait 45 minutes for a hotel shuttle to pick me up after arriving at the airport. I wish I'd called a cab for the first bus ride.

Hotel shuttles picking up guests from Fort Lauderdale–Hollywood International Airport.Joey Hadden/Insider

I went to the port after I piled into a bus that was too hot for me.

A bus taking cruisers from a hotel to the cruise port.Joey Hadden/Insider

I didn't expect the Fort Lauderdale Port to be so beautiful.

A view of the port from the bus.Joey Hadden/Insider

I should have known by this point that I would be standing in many more lines during my cruise because of the long line to get inside the terminal.

People waiting in line at the cruise terminal.Joey Hadden/Insider

There was a long line inside the terminal. I chuckled as I read signs that said "Adventure begins here."

People waiting in line inside the cruise terminal.Joey Hadden/Insider

I was excited to see the ocean as we sailed away, but I couldn't find a place to stand because of tall glass.

People standing on the top deck as the ship sails away.Joey Hadden/Insider

I wish I knew a few things before I set foot on a ship.

I got lost a few times while I was on the ship. The maps on the floors were helpful.

A map of one deck (L) and a hallway of cabins (R).Joey Hadden/Insider

I was surprised to see that the world's largest cruise ship still felt crowded at times.

People enjoying the top decks of the largest cruise ship in the world.Joey Hadden/Insider

Many of the communal decks looked like a crowded mall to me.

People perusing the shops and restaurants on board.Joey Hadden/Insider

I went to Starbucks on a cruise ship and was surprised at how similar it was to stores on land.

There were a lot of people in line at the buffet.

A crowded buffet on the world's largest cruise ship.Joey Hadden/Insider

I ate on the world's largest cruise ship. The dishes that I had are listed.

Usually the pools were busy.

A crowded pool on the world's largest cruise ship.Joey Hadden/Insider

There are 19 pools, plunge pools, and whirlpools accessible to guests on the Wonder of the Seas.

We looked at every aspect of the ships. It's like sailing on each.

The pool decks were usually packed.

A crowded section of the world's largest cruise ship.Joey Hadden/Insider

Even though there were rules against saving chairs with towels, I still saw a lot of people doing it.

People sitting in chairs on the top deck.Joey Hadden/Insider

Crew members might take items from lounge chairs after 30 minutes. They need to consider families and groups who may be in the pool or going to the restroom when they enforce these rules.

It was too windy and cold to enjoy the pool if I waited until the evening.

The author "enjoying" the wind on the top deck in the evening.Joey Hadden/Insider

Many of the cruise ships had long lines.

People waiting in line to go down a slide.Joey Hadden/Insider

Every time I left the ship, I had to wait in line for security at the port stops. It made me feel safer, even though it was annoying.

People waiting in line at a security checkpoint.Joey Hadden/Insider

Is a cruise ship going to wait for me if I'm late? This is what a captain says.

Many tourists were excited to begin their tours at the crowded ports.

People waiting in line to ride a ferry.Joey Hadden/Insider

I had to fight through crowds to find things.

People looking for their excursion groups.Joey Hadden/Insider

Some of the exploration was done from the window of a hot bus.

Inside a hot tour bus.Joey Hadden/Insider

The air conditioning standards for local tour operators vary according to a Royal Caribbean representative.

When I was doing the cool thing I booked, like walking across a suspension bridge amid the treetops, my view was often blocked by everyone else who booked the tour, too.

People crossing a suspension bridge in Roátan, Honduras.Joey Hadden/Insider

Royal Caribbean has a private island in the Bahamas. I can see why people like it.

I understand why the cruise felt crowded, according to a crew member I heard. If I were to book a less crowded cruise, I would enjoy it more.

The top deck early in the morning before it becomes crowded.Joey Hadden/Insider

I learned that cruising is not for me after taking my first Caribbean cruise.

I will book during the off- season to avoid crowds.

People enjoying the top decks of the largest cruise ship in the world.Joey Hadden/Insider

Although my first cruise didn't go as planned, I still have hope that one day I'll be able to go on a cruise.

The author at a port in front of the world's largest cruise ship.Joey Hadden/Insider

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