Saying goodbye to a friend or family member who doesn't really have your best interests is a process. You have probably known the truth for quite some time but you continued making excuses for their bad behavior. It's something we do frequently.
She's probably really busy and forgot we were supposed to hang out tonight. Again. It's okay. He probably forgot I wanted his extra concert ticket when he invited someone else. It's okay. She didn't seem very excited for me when I told her I got published in a magazine. I'm sure she has a lot on her mind right now. It's okay.We constantly make excuses for insensitive behavior because it's coming from someone we love.